“Love changes, changes everything/Love makes the rules from fools to kings” (Two verses of the lyrics of the Climie Fisher – love changes)
The web can offer to curious persons a huge amount of information about millions of topics. However, the vast majority of web users are utilizing search engines in banal ways, mostly related to web services. For instance, rare persons are searching for the notion of love, even if the internet contains the widest library about that, practically not subject to physical limitations. Evidently, a lot of people can’t yet read web pages with the same attention and accuracy that they can put into the reading of traditional, analogical books, or newspapers. Moreover, many persons might not be confident in their own capacities of distinguishing false from true, good from bad, and so on. For that, as it seems, the easy accessibility of the, above cited, huge amount of information can’t exert a strong attraction on common web surfers. Differently, I love the web because it gives me the power to choose freely what is relevant to me. By the way, this page talks about various kinds of love, including the love for intellectual freedom. Preliminarily, I summarize a series of general notions about love. In the second part of the page, I briefly talk about love changes, and I refer a pleasant memory of mine in the matter of love changes.
Love is an emotional attachment, generally towards a living being, human or animal. When love concerns humans, there are 8 different types of it: affinity, depending on brain activities; enduring relationships, depending partly on practical aspects, and partly on subconscious; familiar love, largely related to causal memories; romantic love, depending on physical chemistry and emotional involvement; playful relationships, depending on transitory emotions; obsessive relationships, depending on a maniacal sublimation of survival instinct; self love, depending on the admiration of the soul; altruistic love, depending on spiritual aspects. According to old literature, there are seven different stages of love: attraction, infatuation, physical love, reverence, worship, obsession, and death. The components of love are three: passion, intimacy, and commitment. The triangle of love can give way to: liking, infatuation, fatuous love, empty love, romantic love, companionate, consummate love.
Surprisingly, I haven’t found reliable pages in the matter of love changes. However, I can cite the song “love changes” by the Climie Fisher, from whose lyrics I’ve extracted two significant verses, reported at the beginning of the page. First of all, do love changes exist or not? With other words, can you get an emotional attachment towards someone who’s never the same? Honestly, all the web pages that I’ve read, mostly written by psychologists or other scholars, seem to consider love in contradiction with changes, perhaps because attachment derives from a sort of mental photography of an individual. More, physical love is not subject to unlimited variations, apart from practices not related to a common idea of affective relationship. More, romantic love is defined as a sort of chemical reaction, that requires a rather precise formula. More, sensible mutations in love are normally causing the end of it. Perhaps, I can deduce that the prevalent notion of love, above described, derives from an archetypal idea, responsible of the survival instinct. The archetypal idea is that time doesn’t exist, and sentiments can live out of time, in a dimension made of eternity and immutability. Unluckily, reality is opposite, because time is the only ruler of existence, and nothing is remaining the same. Despite, humans need to forget the vertiginous content of reality, given that only built-in certainties, consolatory thoughts, and habits can motivate individuals. In conclusion, love can be your unmoved mover, because life is mostly made of illusions, and the rules of love are nothing but conventional, shared illusions.
I have a pleasant memory, that I associate to my idea of “love changes”. It is chiefly bound to the years from 1992 to 1996, when I used to go on Saturdays to a peculiar nightclub, from 12 PM to 3 AM. I have left the description of my pleasant memory to the recording of the mix of the page, made for recreating the spirit of the cited nightclub. More precisely, I have developed some ideas of the resident DJ, who is still in activity. The ideas have probably been inspired by the frequenters of the discotheque. It was an international crowd, mostly made of Italians, Germans, French, British, Austrian, and so on. No one was thinking about civil rights, and politics was light years away from the mind of each frequenter. Everything was about freedom and hedonism.
File name “a musical picture of love changes, by Max Look DJ (end of June 2024)”, 1 hour and 21’ of dance tracks suitable to peculiar clubs for VIPs.
Freedom and love, the playlist:
Einstein Doctor Deejay – automatik sex (instrumental)
Baby Marcelo – la hormona dell’amore (Trans Gressive Mix)
Wayne Marshall – g spot
Depeche Mode – suffer well (Alter Ego Remix)
Billy More – up & down (Brite Bells Mix)
Valeria Vix – viciosa (In Progress Mix)
Blast feat V.D.C. – sex and infidelity (TI.PI.CAL Remix)
Ana Bettz – femme
Carolina Marquez – S.E.X.O. (Hardhouse Mix)
Frank “O” Moiraghi feat Amnesia – feel my body (Frank’O Mix)
20 Fingers – lick it (Onofrio Club Mix)
Armante – love me or leave me (F.O.S. Underground Mix)
Madonna – s.e.x.
KMC feat Dhany – somebody to touch me (Pitt Bull A-H)
Rui Da Silva feat Cassandra – touch me (Peace Division’s Higher Dub Remix)
Karen Pollack – you can’t touch me (you can’t hurt me) (Roc & Kato Vocal Beat Trip Mix)
Praxis feat Kathy Brown – turn me out (Buddha Edit)
The Time – jerk out (Sexy Dub)
Lady – easy love
Shanna – do me boy (F.O.S. Energy Dub)
